26 November 2024 by Nthabiseng Matjama

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Divorce in Lesotho is influenced by a range of social, economic, and cultural factors. While marriage is highly valued in Basotho culture, the pressures of modern society have introduced challenges that contribute to marital breakdowns.

One significant source of divorce is financial instability. Many couples struggle to meet the demands of daily life, leading to conflict and strain in relationships. Unemployment and poverty are widespread in Lesotho, and disagreements over financial responsibilities often escalate into irreconcilable differences.

Another factor is infidelity, which undermines trust and commitment in marriages. Extramarital affairs are often cited as a primary reason for divorce, fueled by societal pressures and, in some cases, long periods of separation due to labor migration. Many Basotho men work in South Africa, creating physical and emotional distance from their families.

Cultural shifts have also contributed to rising divorce rates. Traditional Basotho marriages emphasized collective family involvement and problem-solving, but modern marriages are becoming more individualistic. This shift, combined with urbanization, leaves couples without the support of extended families to mediate conflicts.

Additionally, gender inequality and domestic violence play a role. Many women feel trapped in abusive relationships but, as awareness grows and women’s rights are advocated, more are opting to leave unhealthy marriages.

Lastly, lack of communication and mismatched expectations can erode the foundation of a relationship. Couples often enter marriage without adequately discussing long-term goals, leading to misunderstandings and dissatisfaction.

In conclusion, the sources of divorce in Lesotho are multifaceted, reflecting both traditional and modern influences. Addressing these issues requires societal and individual efforts, including promoting financial stability, open communication, and gender equality within marriages.

About the Author: Nthabiseng Matjama is a passionate gender activist committed to promoting balance and equality in the participation of men and women in all spheres of life. With extensive experience in development projects, her work spans critical areas such as food security, HIV/AIDS, civic education, and gender equality, where she has consistently demonstrated her dedication to fostering positive change.

Nthabiseng is a Mandela Washington Fellowship Reader, actively contributing to the selection process of future African leaders. She also serves as an ambassador for UNITAR, advocating for digital skills development among youth and women across sub-Saharan Africa. Her leadership extends to her role as the Secretary of the Board of Directors for Gender Links, where she plays a pivotal role in advocating for vulnerable women and advancing gender justice initiatives.